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What Is Flirting?

A common mistake that most guys make is they try too hard to look cool and then they come across as too serious and ultimately look boring. I’d like to teach you how to drop the “too cool” mindset and teach you how to flirt with a girl in a playful and fun way instead.
Instead of having fun some guys Think that by just standing around and looking cool girls will magically be attracted to them, and that’s a big mistake.
Most women will find these guys pretty boring so let’s rather look at how to flirt with women in a playful manner …

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What does a truly confident and high value man think about when he’s out on the town?

Sorry, I’m going to use a clichè but I do believe it’s a good example. Take James Bond, do you believe that he spends all his time focusing on what other people think about him? I don’t think so.

The recurring theme that you’ll see with any high value person is that they don’t think whether they look cool because they already feel cool. So what does a high value man think about?

Well if his focus is not internal, on himself, then it must be external, which is on his relationship with others . A sexy confident charismatic man will focus his attention on showing other people a great time.

Let’s look at a few examples of this:how to flirt with women

Do you remember the biggest douchebag from your high school or college ?
Do you remember how cool he was always trying to look? So what was it that made him such a douchebag?

It’s probably because he was always trying so hard to look cool and bragging about how great he was and making ridiculous claims that nobody ever believed. This guy was most likely insecure which is why he was trying so hard.

Now let’s look at a high value man. These guys spend their time focusing on other people. How to make them feel good. How to make them laugh and smile, And how to give value. This has the effect of giving them a naturally confident vibe without trying .

Now you might be saying to yourself: “Okay I get it, I have to start focusing on others, but how do I do that?
Well the first thing to focus on is making other people Laugh.

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Banter – How to flirt with girls & boys and be playful.

The best way to do this is to appear non approval seeking by being fun and amused with yourself and everything that is going on around you.

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In fact the best way to impress them is to have the mindset that you don’t need their approval. flirting tips for menInstead just try focusing on being playful, fun and amused with all that is going on around you. One way to do this is with banter.

Banter is important because it’s light playful conversation that shows non-neediness to the people that you are talking to. It shows that you are used to interacting with people without expecting an outcome . This communicates that we don’t need their approval and suggests that we already have approval or we are used to getting approval from women. Always feel free to banter except if the rapport between yourself and another girl has moved on.

Who can you banter with?

Well you can banter with anyone but one key thing to remember is to adopt the attitude of a playful little boy. You are fun, amused by yourself and everything going on around you, but you are not childish and the things you say are not childish. Here are some examples of banter that can also be defined as cute icebreakers.

“You are cool, you can help me pick up chicks?”

This works because you’re not seeking approval. The important thing to remember about flirting is that it’s light and fluffy conversation. You don’t need her approval, you’re just there and having fun.

“Don’t worry you don’t have to be nervous, it’s cute.”

This works because you’re teasing her. One powerful banter trick is light and harmless teasing. Confident teasing shows that you are light and funny and unlike every other guy.

“Stop treating me like a sausage with feet.”

This works because you’re flipping the stereotype. Women are used to being pursued by men, instead you are disqualifying her playfully and making it seem like she’s chasing you. This can help a lot in the initial stages of attraction .

All of these lines are playful non approval seeking and show her that you are not needy.

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Flirtatious Body Language

How to flirt with a girl using correct body language.

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We have focused on what to say and how to say it but we haven’t spoken about body language. Numerous studies have shown that 90% of communication is nonverbal. This means that how you present yourself is much more important than what you most likely thought.

Most men get very nervous when they approach and try to flirt with a girl,  and it shows in their body language. They will tense up slump their shoulders fidget and give off nervous energy and uncomfortable vibe.

This in turn makes everybody else uncomfortable. But if you become more aware of this behavior you can learn to give off a more comfortable masculine energy.

Your body language during the initial approach is only a small piece of the puzzle, it’s also very crucial when building attraction.

The proper use of body language is actually the primary tool to build attraction in the beginning of an interaction. In fact, misusing body language is the biggest hidden problem that most men face .

Even if you understand the process of flirting… without being able to use your body language you have a long way to go if you want to build attraction with a quality woman.

There are lots of things that you can do with your body language but most fall into two categories:

Positive and negative body language – How to flirt with a girl.

Negative body language means turning slightly away. This shows that you are not needy and not seeking approval. It’s great for playing a little bit hard to get in the beginning of an interaction.

Positive body language or turning towards someone shows that you are interested in her and trying to form a deeper connection. This is good in the later stages, once a connection has already been made with a girl.

It’s important to know how and when to give both types of body language. Too much positive body language too soon will have you seeming needy, and she might lose attraction .

If you give negative body language too late in the interaction then she may think that you are not interested and walk away.
For more information about flirtatious body language click here for some easy to follow techniques.

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